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Coming home to a different home

Growing up, I lived one experience and assumed it was the only one. I didn't question how I saw things, how I reacted, how I made sense ...

Håvard Frøiland 29 Jun, 2026

Love with nowhere to go

Holding it alone Holding those heavy feelings alone got too much. I let go of the reins to my own life, in a moment of despair. In moments w...

Håvard Frøiland 28 Jun, 2026

BREAKING NEWS — On Genocide, Political Lies, and Feeling Powerless to Change the World

I have lost faith in mainstream news. I have lost faith in world leaders. I have lost faith in fellow humans that don’t stand up and raise t...

Håvard Frøiland 15 Sept, 2024

The trap of holding on — Escaping Depression's Belief That You're Broken Beyond Repair

“You can always measure what you’ll lose, but you can’t see what you’ll gain.” - Kyle Cease I have created this idea that I am broken, and h...

Håvard Frøiland 23 Aug, 2024

Ask the right question — A Simple Tool for Resisting Alcohol Cravings

What is the ONE Thing I can do, such that in doing so, it will make everything else easier or unnecessary? “Ask the right question, get the ...

Håvard Frøiland 22 Aug, 2024

The cost of willpower — Willpower as a Limited Resource in Alcohol Recovery

We can define willpower in many ways, and would often be described as multiple traits. The ability to delay gratification and resisting temp...

Håvard Frøiland 20 Aug, 2024