May 2024

My Body, Myself, and Mayday — Learning to Reconnect After Alcohol and Self-Neglect

The Body I have treated my body as a thing — something that happens to travel through the world with me, rather than something I am. Sometim...

Håvard Frøiland 30 May, 2024

Data Point, Not Relapse — How I'm Learning to Recover Without Shame

As I've mentioned before in this blog, a lot of my writing comes from the This Naked Mind course I'm doing. It's a year-long cou...

Håvard Frøiland 29 May, 2024

The ACT Technique — A Tool for Working Through Cravings and Alcohol Triggers

Taken from  This Naked Mind "The ACT Technique is a process I’ve developed through many of my teachers (Dave Gray, Byron Katie, and man...

Håvard Frøiland 28 May, 2024

Changing your brains habits — Rewiring Automatic Drinking Patterns Through Awareness

Changing Your Brain’s Habits Rewiring Automatic Drinking Patterns Through Awareness We experience life through our senses. Alcohol will numb...

Håvard Frøiland 26 May, 2024

The little acts — Tracing Suppressed Emotions Back to the Root of Addiction

The little act that set us off. I think I have always been super sensitive to my own emotions. And not knowing how to talk about them, or in...

Håvard Frøiland 25 May, 2024

Language Matters — How Self-Talk Shapes Depression and the Future You Predict

I pay close attention to what people say and do — language plays a big part of my life. Not just spoken, but written, and spoken internally ...

Håvard Frøiland 16 May, 2024 1

Happy birthday to ME! — From Drinking-Fuelled Birthdays to a Sober Celebration

Well, it's my birthday today, and that is not a day I would normally enjoy. When I was little, I think I had so much anticipation that w...

Håvard Frøiland 15 May, 2024

What beliefs do you have about alcohol? — Unlearning Inherited Beliefs About Drinking

Since the question is what kind of beliefs do you have about alcohol, I am happy to say that this has changed greatly from what I believed b...

Håvard Frøiland 14 May, 2024

Deciding to make an open journal — The First Entry of a Public Mental Health Recovery Journal

This post is the start of an open journal about my mental health recovery. I'll write about myself, the people around me, what I'm t...

Håvard Frøiland 13 May, 2024 1